24 December 2009

Lesson learned: Don't ever try posting a four-stanza poem on Facebook status because it will get jigsawed. Therefore, here is the poem in its entirety. Happy Christmas, everyone! :)

The world is so alight with love
At this time of year
When kin and friends surround themselves
With jollity and cheer.

But gaze into the Christmas sky,
And you'll see shining bright
The love that lights the universe
And warms our hearts tonight.

This love was once upon a time
Aglow within the eyes
Of a babe beneath a star,
That beacon in the skies.

May this special kind of love
Be yours the whole year through ~
That is the Christmas wish I make
With love from me to you.

[Photo borrowed from Wallpaper Pimper.]

04 November 2009

At the risk of adding to the Swine Flu mania, I am posting the following information just in case some kitty mommy or daddy finds it helpful:

The AVMA just released the following information:

A 13-year-old cat in Iowa developed signs of a respiratory infection after several people in the household were ill. Preliminary testing was positive for 2009 H1N1 on October 29, and the results were confirmed on November 2. This is the first report of a cat infected with H1N1. The cat has recovered from its illness.

To date, this is the first cat confirmed infected with the 2009 H1N1 virus.

Here are some tips to help keep you and your pet healthy:

* If you are sick, see your doctor.
* If your pet is showing a problem, see your veterinarian.
* It is a good idea to wash your hands before and after handling your pets. This is just good common sense.
* Do not expose your pets to other sick pets.
* Cover your mouth when you sneeze or cough, and toss your soiled tissues in a covered waste bin.
* Good preventative measures can help keep you and your pets healthy. That's good advice any time of year, but especially during flu season.


Good luck to you all as we make our way through flu season!

01 November 2009

An old adage maintains that a picture is worth a thousand words, so today I will be substituting a few photos for a whole lot of words. These are photos taken by my friend, Tisha, when she cleaned for me a few days ago. Alas, there are none of Melly, who pretty well stays under the bed when visitors are in the house. And aren't my baby boys growing up *FAST*??? :) If you are my Facebook friend, on my profile page there, you can see all the photos Tisha took. :)

Trey

Trey again

Joey

Joey with Halloween eyes :)

Joey and Elly Fae

Elly Fae

Deuce

Chelsie


One last note: happy birthday to Tisha on November 2! :)

24 October 2009

This is Tito Collier, the latest addition to the family of David Collier, one of my former baby boys. Well, actually, I guess David will always be my baby boy no matter how old he gets. :)

Anyway, I am using this picture ~ with his permission (thanks, David!) ~ to highlight my wish for all little animals to have happy endings. Friends repeatedly tell me that I can't save them all, but I surely wish I could. Even good intentions can't bring uniform happy endings, however ~ a fact emphasized to me when I arrived home from school yesterday to find a dead kitten on my doorstep. He was one of those born to one of the strays that hang around Elly's home and mine, and the little guy had been having some problems lately. I *planned* to start dosing him with Albon, if I could catch him. However, a killer-busy week kept postponing those best-laid plans, and look what happened. He had wrapped himself around my angel statue to take his last breaths, so I like to think he had a divine escort to the Rainbow Bridge.

I surely have learned a painful lesson about procrastination.

Ironically, today's e-mail from Petplace.com's Dr. Jon dealt with kitty lifespans:

People often ask me, "How long will my cat live?"

Recently, I saw a client with a 22-year-old cat. If I didn't know how old this cat was, I would have guessed that he was 10 years old.

Today cats live longer than ever. Just 20 years ago the life expectancy of a cat was four to six years; today they live 14 years or more.* Life expectancy in cats depends on many things, but the most important factor is whether the cat is an indoor-only cat or an outdoor cat. Life expectancy varies significantly between the two.

The life expectancy of an indoor cat is generally 12 to 18 years. Many indoor cats may live to be in their early 20s. The oldest cat in reported history was 28 years old at the time of death.

Outdoor cats generally live to be around four to five years of age. Their deaths are typically due to traumas like being hit by a car or attacked by a dog. Outdoor cats are also more susceptible to several deadly viruses that are spread by fighting or prolonged intimate contact with an infected cat.

Keep your cat healthy by feeding a high quality diet, and providing routine vaccinations and physical examinations....

I hope your cat lives a long and healthy life. That is one of the reasons why I take the time and energy to write this newsletter and why I started Petplace. My goal is to share practical information that will help keep your cat happy, healthy and alive longer!

Until next time,

Dr. Jon


Hey, Dr. Jon ~ I hope to accomplish the same goals with my blog! Happy endings for everybody! :)

18 October 2009

With only a couple of weeks until Halloween, people are planning costumes, candy, and ~ unfortunately ~ carnage. I am one of those grumpy old people who don't like Halloween. In fact, it's my least favorite time of the year, and I am always so relieved when we are past it. People use it as an excuse for meanness while others show extreme disrespect to our blessed dead. Why would a graveyard be an evil place when loved ones are buried there, y'know?

As the mommy of two black kitties and two other almost-black kitties, I also worry about black kitties at this time of year. Many of the strays that Elly and I feed are black, and each Halloween season, I pray that they all will stay safe from those who might have other ideas for them.

Dr. Jon's recent e-mail from PetPlace.com had this advice for kitty mommies and daddies at Halloween:

With Halloween just around the corner, many cat owners are gearing up to dress themselves, their children, their dogs, their homes and sometimes even their cats in Halloween attire. Including our pets in fun festivities is like second nature to cat lovers because our cats truly are part of our family.

But when it comes to Halloween, do our cats really enjoy wearing costumes? Well, this can all depend on so many things, like their temperament and even more so, the type of costume you choose. But to be honest - most cats don't like to be dressed up. In fact, I think Halloween is one of the least favorite holidays to most cats.

To keep your cat safe this Halloween, here are some tips:

1. If your cat is an indoor-only cat, consider keeping him or her closed in one room during trick-or-treat so he or she doesn't accidentally get out of an open door.

2. If your cat is an indoor/outdoor cat, it is safest to keep your cat inside during trick-or-treat night and Halloween nights.

3. Don't force your cat to wear a costume if he or she doesn't want to. Halloween is supposed to be fun for everyone and you don't want your cat to be miserable. There are also other ways your cat can enjoy the festivities
[meaning extra treats and toys!]

4. Keep your cat away from burning candles (like those in the jack-o-lantern). Their swishy tails can easily knock candles over and create house fires or cause injury to your cat.

5. Keep your cat away from candy, strings, candy wrappers and any other loose objects on the floor and tables - if cats eat these things, it could make them sick.


May you and your furry loved ones have a *safe* and happy Halloween. However, I can't help looking forward to November 1 when it's all over!

[The graphic in this post is courtesy of Art.com.]

01 October 2009

At 6:30 this morning, I was cuddled in bed with Trey, who was purring, kneading with his paws, and sucking my finger, as he does when he is supremely content. At 7:30 as I signed surgery papers at the vet, he and Deuce were glowering at me quite unhappily.

Today is their doodle surgery, y'see. So besides getting no breakfast and being stuffed into a carrier during their primo romp time, they will be facing surgery today. I try not to feel too guilty since neutering a kitty will only prolong his life and health. However, I do have a low guilt threshold, and I can't help wondering if my baby boys will still love me when I bring them home this afternoon.

As if in response, today's e-mail from Dr. Jon linked to an article asking can pets really love? Here is the kitty part of that article. I was happy to note that my fuzzy half dozen have often displayed *ALL* the signs of affection listed! :) Now I will be hoping for some of the same signs from my baby boys later this afternoon! :)

Love of a Cat
By Dr. Nicholas Dodman


Cats are said to be independent, aloof, and not in need of company except on their terms. This is true only of some cats; certainly not all. Cats raised by people from an early age either think they are almost human, or that the human is almost a cat.

In fact, throughout a cat-person bond, the two may switch roles without realizing it. On occasion, a cat will bring home a dead or half-dead animal as a token of her love and respect (a touching, if gruesome, method of confirming the bond).

Bringing home "love offerings" of this type is a sign of attachment and belonging. There are others that require less clean up. When the bond is strong, a cat will:

# Tend to follow you around. She may not follow immediately, but after a moment or two she might casually saunter into the room where you're sitting (as if she's trying to play the whole thing down). Your cat may jump in your lap or may just find a chair nearby. Either way, she prefers to spend time with you.

# Become slightly depressed when you leave, and greet you enthusiastically upon your return. She may learn to recognize the sound of your car pulling up and run to the door, expecting your presence.

# Send subtle cat signals of affection to you throughout the day. These often take the form of classic "cat kisses" – staring at you adoringly, then squinting or slowly closing her eyes.

# Send not-so-subtle signals, such as rubbing her head upon you (marking you with her scent), and of course, purring.

# Lying on her back, with her stomach exposed. This is a sign of trust, because your cat is now in a vulnerable position. Many owners mistakenly think this is a request for a belly rub. It usually isn't.

This is a cat's affection at its most intense. They can't hold your hand, and they are not given to jumping up and kissing you. There's no difficulty to describe this sort of relationship as love.

20 September 2009







This week I am showing you more recent pictures of my baby boys so that you can see how much they have grown. To give you something for comparison, the top three pictures are from early summer. As you can see from Picture 5 of Trey with Joey, they still have a way to go before catching up with their 20-pound brother, but they are thriving. Not bad for the little bits that came to me weighing less than a pound (Deuce) and just over a pound (Trey). :)

13 September 2009

Here's a bonus post for you for this week because I wanted to share.

My little Deuce has an attraction to toilet paper. I spent a lot of time rerolling salvageable toilet paper and cleaning up toilet paper that he and Trey had dragged and shredded throughout the house ~ making the place look like snow had fallen indoors ~ not to mention making the boys look as if they were foaming at their mouths with the shredded TP there. Deuce was definitely the TP unroller in these cases, but Trey happily joined in the fun when the TP hit the floor.

I thought I was so clever when I installed another TP holder ~ this one higher up, out of the reach and sight of my little guy because I hang my robe over it.

So *NOW* what does he do? On three different occasions ~ so far ~ today, I have seen him with a Puff in his mouth. He is pilfering my pop-up Puffs by snatching them right from the box.

Oh for the good ol' days when he was too small to jump up onto my desk! :)

[Photo courtesy of Itchmo News for Dogs & Cats.]

Since school has begun, I have even less time and energy for something like housecleaning. And sharing a house with six furry critters only compounds the problem.

I hire a lady once a month to clean for me. She is extremely efficient and thorough, but once a month isn't really enough to keep the homestead as spic-and-span clean as I like for it to be. However, I am stretching my budget beyond its limit to afford even that.

Consequently, I have learned a few shortcuts for between Tisha's monthly visits. Many of these methods were highlighted in an e-mail I received from Dr. Jon, a vet who sends out his daily advice column through the sponsorship of PetPlace.com.

Here was his e-mail with a few comments from me, too!

When you own a cat, keeping the house clean is never easy. From all that shedding to hairballs and those occasional "accidents" every day can be a real challenge.

And the more pets you have, the more challenging the task becomes. So here are a few quick and easy tips that can help keep your house clean:

1. Avoid white furniture and accents. That goes for walls, rugs, couches and pillows. Outside cats and indoor/outdoor cats get dirty. And all cats shed. Add to that the occasional hairball or "accident" and, well, it's a bad combination all around for white furniture and accents. Continuous contact between your pet and your house will destroy these items quickly, so consider darker tones.
[Vikki's Note: I knew better, but I fell in love with a *big* sunflower rug that I bought for the living room ~ the problem being that the background is *beige.* *HUGE* mistake. All my kitties but Trey have some black on them, and that fur accumulates on the rug and sticks there like glue. Only my Oreck has enough suction to pull it up, and because of my back problems, I'm not supposed to vacuum with anything but my little cordless vac. So I have to wait for Tisha ~ or run the Oreck myself and then hit the Vicodin bottle. Occasional barfy messes on this rug are that much harder to clean, too. For any kind of stain, I highly recommend OxiClean Stain Remover, found with laundry products. If OxiClean won't eradicate the stain, nothing will!]

2. Get yourself some throw rugs, pillows and furniture throws to use around the house. They're decorative and can hide problem stains. [Vikki's Note: Yep, I'm all about hiding those stains when the OxiClean is overmatched!]

3. Keep closet doors closed. Cats love to hide and nap in closets, which also means that they shed in your closets. And if they happen to have an "accident" in the closet, it may be a while before you realize it. That makes clean-up even more of an issue. [Vikki's Note: You may have to be creative if you have louvered doors as I do. My kitties can paw them open. So I installed latches on some, and put heavy, decorative doorstops in front of others.]

4. Spot clean messes quickly. Take a few minutes each day before you leave the house and before you head to bed to remove pet hairs and stains that may have collected throughout the day. I strongly suggest investing in the Swiffer Sweeper for this. It's great for quick clean-ups. This 2-In-1 Swiffer allows you to sweep and mop at the same time, cutting your cleaning time in half. It picks up 50% more dirt and hair than a broom and removes everything from dried food, vomit and pet fur to paw prints on virtually any surface in your home. So not only is it quicker, it also works better than traditional sweeping and mopping! If you own a cat, you really should own a Swiffer. This is a pet owner must-have!

Check out the Swiffer Sweeper.
[Vikki's Note: As soon as I get past some financial obligations, I'll give the Swiffer Sweeper a try on that living room rug and get back to you with the results. By the way, one of these financial obligations happens October 1 when Deuce and Trey have their little operations on their doodles. Please keep us in your good thoughts! Thanks! And as Dr. Jon says...]

Happy Cleaning!

Until next time,
Dr. Jon

And Vikki, Too! :)

[Photo courtesy of Somerville Free Classifieds. Yes, I know the kitty isn't cleaning, but she is the photo for a housecleaning ad. Besides, she was too darn cute to resist!]

07 September 2009

Bonus Kitty Comics for Labor Day! :)

Were truer words ever spoken? :)




05 September 2009

I know you're wondering what the heck this cartoon has to do with *Purrspectives of the Crazy Cat Lady.* I can sum up my reasoning in two words: KITTY LITTER! If ever there was a man who should be buried in it, here he is ~ though maybe I'm insulting kitties and their litter in the process? When I first heard that *Blago* might be impeached, I said, *Ding dong, the witch is dead.* However, this particular witch lingers and lingers in the most public and disagreeable ways ~ kinda like the odor of skunky roadkill on the highway. Or is that insulting skunks?

29 August 2009

Most of us have encountered this hide-and-seek game when it's time for a trip to the vet. How do our babies *know* when we work so hard to trick them? :)

I had another use for my carrier on Friday. We had quite the adventure here.

Friday morning, after a killer week at school, I was awake kinda early, so I decided just to get up and maybe finally get to read my morning papers online. I have been seriously out of the news loop since school started simply because I've had no time for reading or watching news. I fed my inside kitties, and then, as I opened the door to feed outside kitties, one of them ~ Deuce's littermate ~ jumped over my foot and got inside.

The poor little guy was terrified and went ripping through the house ~ and I mean *ripping* ~ tearing up things in his path mostly in the bathroom and bedroom, where he went up the curtains, down the curtains, and up the curtains again to perch atop them ~ howling and knocking down my pink-rose garland there along with a wall-hanging that had belonged to my mama.

After sharing a bed with six kitties overnight, I am wheezy on a good day, but after chasing this kitty, I was *really* gasping, and my attempts to calm him down weren't working very well. I must have sounded like a wheezy monster to the little guy.

I finally got him off the curtains, and then he ran to my office and hid in a corner, underneath a cabinet. As much as I *HATED* to bother her at 5:15 in the morning, I had to call neighbor Elly for help. I had to get ready for school soon, and with my arthritic back, I knew I could never get down on the floor and get both the kitty and me up again if I happened to catch him.

Bless her heart, Elly came right over. We hoped to lure him into a carrier baited with some canned kitty food, but he didn't budge. After about 15 minutes of futile waiting, I decided a more active approach was needed. I lay on the floor, reached under the cabinet *carefully,* and scruffed him. He wasn't happy, but with the scruffing, I didn't get scratched.

Elly held the carrier tipped up so that I could drop him inside, and then she let him out outside. He was *VERY* happy to be outside again. My own fuzzy half dozen were amazingly calm throughout the whole ordeal though Deuce showed no signs of remembering his littermate ~ and vice versa. However, I was a mess.

At least our adventure happened on a Friday, not a Monday! :) After school, I took Elly out for her favorite, Chinese, to say thanks. I'd still be lying on the floor with the kitty huddled in the corner without her help.

This morning I kicked the door before I opened it so that any kitties gathered there would scoot back a bit. I didn't have to worry about Friday's kitten. He watched from a distance until the food was in place. :)

23 August 2009

Have you missed me? I'm guessing posts will be fewer now that school has begun, but I will surely try for at least once a week. And I will rely heavily on the kindness of others, too ~ meaning I will use that wonderful copy-and-paste feature on my computer.

First, though, I will share with you that we have late-summer kittens in the neighborhood. One stray had a litter over by Elly's in some unknown location, and another stray had hers literally by my back stoop. I saw them when I was carrying in groceries Saturday. She kept them there overnight and then moved them to a more secure location this morning ~ thanks be to God because I was a frazzled mess trying to keep watch over them in their fairly exposed location. She had four, but one didn't survive. Five dead kittens in one summer is a little hard on the emotions, but I managed. We definitely didn't need more kittens in the neighborhood, but I don't want to decrease their population through death.

Now for the *borrowed* part of this post. I subscribe to a daily kitty newsletter from a wonderful place called PetPlace.com. Today's e-mail included recipes for homemade kitty treats. *I* will certainly give Julia Child no competition, but I thought maybe some of you with more culinary expertise would like to try them:

The pet stores are full of cat treats. But did you know that you can make your own healthy kitty treats at home? Here are some recipes to help you find a way to your cat's heart:

Savory Cheese Treats

* 3/4 cup white flour
* 3/4 cup shredded cheddar cheese
* 5 tablespoons grated parmesan cheese

# 1/4 cup plain yogurt or sour cream
# 1/4 cup cornmeal

Preheat the oven to 350 degrees Fahrenheit. Combine cheeses and yogurt. Add flour and cornmeal. If needed, add a small amount of water to create a nice dough. Knead dough into a ball and roll to 1/4 inch. Cut into one inch sized pieces and place on greased cookie sheet. Bake for 25 minutes. Makes 2 dozen.

Chick N'Biscuits

* 1 1/2 cups shredded cooked chicken
* 1/2 cup chicken broth
* 1 cup whole wheat flour
* 1/3 cup cornmeal
* 1 tablespoon soft margarine

Preheat the over to 350 F. # Combine chicken, broth and margarine and blend well. Add flour and cornmeal. Knead dough into a ball and roll to 1/4 inch. Cut into one-inch sized pieces and place on an ungreased cookie sheet. Bake at 350 degrees for 20 minutes. Makes 18 cookies.

Crispy Liver Morsels

* 1/2 cup cooked chicken livers
* 1/4 cup water
* 1 1/4 cup whole wheat flour
* 1/4 cup cooked carrot, mashed
* 1 tablespoon soft margarine

Preheat the oven to 325 F. Place well-done livers in a blender with 1/4 cup water. In a bowl, combine flour and margarine. Add liver mixture and carrots and knead dough into a ball. Roll dough to 1/4 inch thick and cut into one-inch sized pieces. Place cookies on a greased cookie sheet and bake at 325 F for 10 minutes. Makes 12 cookies.

Tuna Tidbits

* 6 ounce can of tuna
* 1/4 cup water drained from tuna
* 3 T cooked egg white, chopped
* 1/4 cup cornmeal
* 1/2 cup whole wheat flour

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Combine tuna, egg white and water. Add cornmeal and flour and blend to form a dough. Knead into a ball and roll to 1/4 inch thick. Cut into one-inch sized pieces. Bake at 350 F for 20 minutes. Makes 12 cookies.


Happy cooking!

[The image at the top of this post was borrowed from Whimsy of Andrea.]

18 August 2009

This poster released by the Michigan Humane Society shows the poster for 'Catfax' which allows would be owners to get the history of their 'new' cat before they adopt. (AP Photo/Michigan Humane Society ~ Courtesy Yahoo News)

Check into the Michigan Humane Society Web site for further details. :)

15 August 2009

Are you planning a trip to Lithuania in what is left of your summer? Well, have I got the site for you see when you are there: the Cats Museum!

Founded in 1990 at Young Naturalist’s Centre, the museum was established by Vanda Kavaliauslkiene, who was collecting exhibits for the museum many years. The first exhibit, a little black wooden cat, came from Poland in 1962. Visitors are greeted by cats in stained glass, on stair handrails, on the lamps, and in over 10,000 other exhibits there.

Here visitors can get acquainted with cats, their breeds, and their character features. The museum features exhibits from many countries throughout the world, including Australia, Brazil, Canada, Cuba, China, Portugal and Taiwan. Miniatures of both male and female cats are created from porcelain, glass, amber, marble, crystal, and other media.

Children's pictures, artistic photographs, works of professional painters, and other items are also presented in the expositions. Visitors are greeted by a beloved cat, Mikis, who is considered to be the head of the museum.

You can e-mail the museum at jgs@splius.lt.

14 August 2009

Your bonus post! You can probably guess why this appealed to me! :)


This kitten rescue story was in today's Post-Dispatch:

Kittens Survive Truck Crushing in Alaska
By Rindi White
MCCLATCHY NEWSPAPERS
Thursday, Aug. 13 2009
WASILLA, Alaska — Two tiny kittens owe their lives to a rescue by a couple of seasoned “junkyard dogs.”

The pair is a little smudged but otherwise unharmed after the nest of shredded paper their mother made for them under a pickup seat was smashed by a car crusher over the weekend.

Gary Jacobsen, 10-year owner of Alaska Car Crushing of Wasilla, said the kittens were a pretty lucky pair. They’ve been named Crush and Smash as a reminder of their ordeal.

“It’s unbelievable they’re alive. They were the luckiest cats in the world the other day,” Jacobsen said.

The kittens were living in a brownish-purple 1970s-era GMC crew cab pickup. Jacobsen said the truck had been at the yard a while, maybe a couple of years. He said he thinks the mother cat likely moved the other kittens out of the nest but may have been interrupted before retrieving this pair.

A worker checked the truck before it was loaded into the crusher, he said, but the kittens were under a back seat, in an area that was difficult to see.

The truck was put through the crusher Aug. 1, then stacked on a flatbed trailer — the bottom-most in a stack of nine vehicles — and strapped down to be hauled to Schnitzer Steel in Anchorage for shredding, Jacobsen said.

On Monday, Aug. 3, Jacobsen’s brother Jeff Pruitt heard a “mew” while standing beside the loaded vehicles. Thinking it might be a toy, the men listened for another sound for more than 10 minutes. Amid all the engine noise from running machinery at the business, the “mew” was inaudible.

Jacobsen said they turned all the equipment off, then heard the sound again. Workers at the plant spent about an hour unloading the vehicles stacked on top of the truck and ripping the roof off. After a lot of prying — and a little
ribbing — they found the kittens’ nest under the seat.

“It was quite an ordeal,” Jacobsen said. “A couple guys came into the yard and said, ’What are you doing?’ (I said,) ’There’s a cat in there.’ ’Well, it’s just a cat,’ they said.”

Jacobsen said the kittens survived the weekend imprisoned in metal without food or drink. But they weren’t likely to have been as lucky at the metal recycling plant, where the pickup would have been crushed between rollers and shredded with a hammer mill.

“It’s the right thing to do — we didn’t really even have a choice,” Jacobsen said.

Asked how the cats survived the brutal strength of the crusher, he said a well-placed tire — an item usually removed before crushing — kept the cab area from being completely crushed.

Crush and Smash have been adopted by Shirah Roth at Schnitzer Steel in Anchorage. Roth said she and her daughter are keeping the unweaned kittens fed with milk around the clock.

12 August 2009

I have only a *Kitty Bit* for you today. With school starting in one week, I have many, many things needing my attention right now. However, I wanted to pass along news about Walgreens' Prescription Savings Club, which will provide *significant savings* for you and your family when you buy prescription medications. I am mentioning it here because Walgreens includes *PETS* in your family. :) Lots of kitty kisses to Walgreens!

Please note that this is a club, not an insurance. Here is more information from Walgreens:

If you live in the United States or Puerto Rico and are not enrolled in a publicly funded health care program, such as Medicare, Medicaid or TRICARE, you are eligible for the Prescription Savings Club. Children under the age of 18 can be enrolled by a parent or guardian.

Enrollment for an individual is $20 per year or $35 for an entire family. Family enrollment includes spouse, dependents under the age of 23 and pets. Additional adult family members living in the same household, such as a parent or grandparent, will be issued their own card at the individual rate.


In this program, some meds are as little as $12 for a 90-day supply, so membership could be a good investment for you. Check it out! :)

[My thanks to my friend Emmie for giving me a heads-up about this program!]

09 August 2009

Neighbor Elly's Roadie is 15 this year. Like most people, Elly was figuring that each kitty year equals seven years, the same conversion rate as dogs have. However, kitties have a whole different scale. Consequently, instead of being 105, Roadie is actually a youthful 76. I found this chart and information at the site for the Tally Oaks Vet Service:

A popular misconception is that cats age seven years for each calendar year. In fact, feline aging is much more rapid during the first two years of life. A cat reaches the approximate human age of 15 during its first year, then 24 at age 2. Each year thereafter, it ages approximately four "cat years" for every calendar year. Thus, a 5-year-old feline would be approximately 36 in cat years. It should be remembered that a cat who lives outdoors ages far more quickly, perhaps even twice as fast, than an indoor cat.



[Birthday kitty photo courtesy of Funny Underline.]

08 August 2009

When all else fails, blame the cat. Good grief!

From Yahoo News:

Fla. Man Blames Cat Paws for Child Porn Downloads
Fri Aug 7, 8:29 pm ET

JENSEN BEACH, Fla. – Florida investigators say a man accused of downloading child pornography is blaming his cat. Keith Griffin of Jensen Beach is charged with 10 counts of possession of child pornography after detectives found more than 1,000 images on his home computer.

According to a sheriff's report Friday, Griffin told investigators that his cat jumped on the computer keyboard while he was downloading music. He said he had left the room and found "strange things" on his computer when he returned.

Griffin is being held on $250,000 bond in the Martin County jail. It is unclear if he has an attorney.


My opinion is that someone needs to be neutered with a cheese grater ~ and I'm *not* talking about the poor kitty!

[Photo courtesy of Ecohaven.]

07 August 2009

I cannot abide cruelty of any kind, but it's especially heinous against those who depend on us for their care ~ like children and animals. As you know already, I am a big proponent of animal rescue organizations. But how wonderful it would be if the need for these organizations was reduced to natural-disaster situations rather than the consequences of cruelty or neglect of animals.

As a teacher, I know that nipping negative behavior in the bud, so to speak, is a wise strategy. Consequently, I was pleased to read the following article in today's Post-Dispatch:

Pet-Focused Reading Program Aims to Prevent Cruelty
By LINDA LOMBARDI
FOR THE ASSOCIATED PRESS
Thursday, Aug. 06 2009
WHEATON, Md. -- "I have no use for a cat." That's what Mrs. Crump says when the golden cat shows up on her porch and slips in the door. And when she thinks about letting the cat out, one child in Natalie Nelson's kindergarten class
can't help but interrupt.

"That's not a nice thing to do! You can't tell a cat to shoo, because they like you," the student calls out.

It's not a bad summary of one of the lessons of "Mrs. Crump's Cat," the book that humane educator BJ Altschul is reading to the class.

Altschul's visit to Arcola Elementary is part of the Humane Education Ambassador Readers program, which brings volunteers into schools to lead activities based on a carefully selected list of picture books about people and animals. The goal is to help children develop the empathy for other creatures that prevents animal cruelty and promotes responsible care of pets.

Each book is chosen partly because it helps children understand something about the meaning of a pet's sounds, tail-wagging and other body language. These basic lessons in animal behavior are important because many of the children involved in the program have no pets, and their only experiences of animals may be fearful ones.

"If they're not raised around animals, they may not understand how you can listen to an animal," says Nicole Forsyth of United Animal Nations, which developed the program.

In the book read to Nelson's class, Mrs. Crump warms to the cat, letting it dry off by the fire. And when it won't eat bread, she goes to the store to buy it some cream... and then a bowl, and flea soap, and a pretty collar.

After the reading, a few students are chosen to act out the story, and the class puts what they've learned about cat communication into action. When the child playing the cat would rather stay with Mrs. Crump than be let loose, Altschul asks the whole room, "How would you let her know that? What kinds of sounds would you make?" The class breaks out in a loud purr.

The mission of United Animal Nations is to take animals out of crisis situations such as natural disasters, but President and CEO Forsyth says they found themselves dealing with more cruelty cases, such as puppy mill rescues. Rather than simply react to these situations, they wanted to get involved in prevention by teaching humane attitudes towards animals from an early age.

The Humane Education Ambassador Readers program is designed so that it can be implemented on a local level by trained volunteers, which is important since few animal welfare organizations have the resources for a large dedicated humane education staff. And it is structured to fit in with specific curriculum standards for different states.

Teacher Heather Bracken of Hazel Strauch Elementary School in Sacramento, Calif., has had humane reading volunteers in her third grade class for the past two years. Bracken says that in her inner-city school, the program is important because it may be the first experience her students have of the idea of "an animal as part of the family."

But a big reason that it works is that it does double duty:

"They come in with documentation of how it fits into the standards," she says. "It makes it easy for a teacher to get approval from her administrator."

Having been successful incorporating the program into curriculum standards in Sacramento, Calif., Washington, D.C., and British Columbia, the group is now gearing up to expand to other cities.

Although it's too soon to judge the long-term effectiveness of the program, Bracken says that some results were clear in how her students talked to her after the visits, such as expressing concern for stray animals.

And she says that none of the parents complained when they got the inevitable requests for pets, because the students knew the effort that would be involved.

The program "taught the children the sense of joy of having an animal, and also the responsibility that goes along with it," she says. "They go home and educate their parents, too."
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Pets columnist Linda Lombardi can be reached at creaturewriter@gmail.com


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Rest in peace, Sam the Koala. She was the koala that survived the massive fires in Australia back in February and then became famous through the picture shown here. Sam was euthanized during surgery when doctors determined that her cystic disease was inoperable. Those who cared for Sam at the animal shelter as well as the firefighter who shared his water with her are devastated. I feel just as I did when I read that Barbaro had to be put down, too. :( Is it being soft-hearted or soft-headed to feel so deeply for animals you've never met?

06 August 2009



I love both puppies and kitties ~ with a slight edge to kitties simply because that's what my lifestyle has allowed over the years. However, I know that there are definite *Cat People* and *Dog People* out there. For those of you needing some guidance on the difference between cats and dogs, here is an explanation by way of PetPlace.com:

PET DIARIES...

From a Dog's Daily Diary:


8:00 am
Oh Boy! Dog Food! My favorite!

9:30 am
Oh Boy! A Car Ride! My Favorite!

9:40 am
Oh Boy! A Walk! My Favorite!

10:00am
Oh Boy! Getting petted! My favorite!

11:30 am
Oh Boy! Dog Food! My Favorite!

Noon
Oh Boy! The Kids! My Favorite!

1:00 pm
Oh Boy! The Yard! My Favorite!

4:00 pm
Oh Boy! To the Park! My Favorite!

5:00 pm
Oh Boy! Dog Food! My Favorite!

5:30 pm
Oh Boy! Pretty Mums! My Favorite!

6:00 pm
Oh Boy! Playing Ball! My Favorite!

6:30 pm
Oh Boy! Watching TV with my Master! My Favorite!

8:30 pm
Oh Boy! Sleeping in Master's Bed! My Favorite!

From a Cat's Daily Diary:

Day 483 of my captivity. My captors continue to taunt me with bizarre little dangling objects. They dine lavishly on fresh food while I am forced to eat dry cereal.

The only thing that keeps me going is the hope of escape and the mild scolding I get from ruining the occasional piece of furniture. Tomorrow I may eat another houseplant.

Today my attempt to kill my captors by rubbing around their feet while they were walking almost succeeded; must try this at the top of the stairs.

In an attempt to disgust and repulse these vile oppressors, I once again induced myself to vomit on their favorite chair; must try this on their bed.

Decapitated a mouse and brought them the headless body in an attempt to make them aware of what I am capable of and to try to strike fear into their hearts. They only cooed and condescended about what a good little cat I was.

Hmmmm, not working according to plan.

There was some sort of gathering of their accomplices. I was placed in solitary confinement throughout the event. However, I could hear the noise and smell of food. More importantly, I overheard that my confinement was due to my power of "allergies". I must learn what this is and how to use it to my advantage.

I am convinced the other captives are flunkies and maybe snitches. The dog is routinely released and seems more than happy to return. He is obviously a half-wit.

The bird, on the other hand, has got to be an informant. He speaks with them regularly, and I am certain he reports my every move. Due to his current placement in the metal room, his safety is assured.

But I can wait; it is only a matter of time.

Disclaimer: Many of these articles were submitted by PetPlace.com dog lovers and the original source is unknown in terms of origin, author or copyright. It is not our intent to infringe on anyone's copyright and if it is done, it is done unknowingly and we would be happy to remove the offending content. Just email us.

[Photo courtesy of Riverside Cards and Balloons.]

05 August 2009

Yet Another Doting Mommy Alert! :)

I took some pictures of the *Terrible Two* as they are settling down for a nap. As you can see, Trey is thrilled to pieces about receiving a bath from his bubby. They are growing up much too fast. I have threatened to stop feeding them so that they will stop growing. :) Like that would really happen! They eat better than I do 'cause I will eat generic, and they won't! :)

[Hey, Melinda! Notice the pink-rose tissues in the bottom corner of my desk organizer. I still have them! :) You just can't put boogies and snot on pink-rose tissues! :)]



03 August 2009

Yesterday you met Nora, the piano kitty. Today you get to meet Casper, the bus kitty. Known in England as the *Commuter Cat,* Casper lines up with other boarding passengers before taking his place on a seat for his ride.

The BBC Web site has a Casper video, along with this story:

Commuter Cat Is Star of Bus Route

A cat has become such a well-known user of a Devon bus service that its drivers know where to let him off.

Casper has been queuing with other passengers to get the number three service from his home in Plymouth for months, bus company First said.

It added that he often sat in the queue and then quietly padded on board and curled up on a seat for the ride.

Casper's owner Susan Finden, 55, who picked him from a rescue home in 2002, said he had always been a free spirit.

Mrs Finden said she named her pet after Casper the Friendly Ghost, as he has a habit of wandering off.

A spokesman for First said that drivers had been bussing Casper around for months, but Mrs Finden said she had only just found out about his use of public transport.

The care worker said: "He'd always go off and have a wander.

"Once I had to walk a mile-and-a-half with a cat basket to bring him back from a car park.

"He does love people, and I don't know what the attraction is but he loves big vehicles like lorries and buses."

A notice has been put up by First in the bus drivers' rest room in Plymouth bus station asking them to look after the rogue passenger if they spot him sneaking on board.


Another article mentioned that Casper has a preference for First buses over Citybuses, and he has become such a celebrity that some First-bus passengers use his picture on their computer desktops.

First-bus officials have no plans to collect retroactive fares from Casper. At 12 years old, in kitty years he would be classified as an *OAP* and get a free bus pass anyway. :)

[My thanks to my friend Stephen for sending me links to Casper.]

02 August 2009

I want to introduce you to Nora, the piano-playing kitty. Nora has mew-sic in her heart and an orchestra to accompany her. :) Move over, Susan Boyles, because Nora has become a You Tube sensation, too, with over 2.5 million fans tuning in. So kick back and listen to Nora's Cat-certo! Okay, so maybe she isn't Vladimir Horowitz, but she can play better than I can! :) And all this time I thought kitties preferred *strings*??? :) Janet, maybe she can join you and John some time for a piano party? :) [The downloadable photo I found is apparently one of Nora in her more formative years. You can find links to two of Nora's earlier videos at this same Web page.]

Speaking of formative years, my baby boys are famous now. Deuce and Trey were just chosen to be Kitties of the Week in the EdHat Santa Barbara e-zine! Their favorite bubby, Joey, was a Kitty of the Week himself for Halloween 2006. :) Thanks to their Auntie Em for sharing the e-mail and link with me! :)

31 July 2009


How ironic that I should see this cartoon today because Elly and I were *JUST* talking about this tendency in our babies. I have spent at least a bajillion and one dollars on kitty toys, beds, and kitty trees for my fuzzy family, and they seem just as happy with empty boxes and up-ended waste baskets. :) Oh well. Today I read an article with a checklist to make your home both safe and happy for your kitties, and I am okay and then some on every point. :)

30 July 2009

You knew that the closer I get to school, the more infrequent my posts become, right? I'm not sure whether I want to know if you consider that good news or bad news. In either event, even when school starts, I promise to *try* to post at least once a week. Finding kitty topics to cover isn't the problem ~ the problem is finding the time to write about the topics!

Since this is also time to be working on my September newsletter as well as on school-related material, I am spending a lot of time in my office, an office that includes a fairly common device called a paper shredder. Since I first plugged it in, I have been concerned about its convenience for me and its safety for my kitties. To have the best of both worlds, I kept it turned on, but over the openings to the blades, I placed an old mousepad to keep kitty paws, tails, and tongues away. After reading this article, I threw convenience out the door, and now I keep my shredder turned completely *OFF* between uses.

From PetPlace.com:

Hi! My name is Erica Cacioppo. On May 26th, 2006 my lab/pit mix, Shelby had a horrific accident involving a paper shredder.

I woke at 6 AM to a horrible sound. It was Shelby screaming! It was a sound I have never heard and can't get out of my head. I ran downstairs and asked my husband Gino, who was holding her, what was wrong. Before he could answer I saw the most horrific sight of my life, Shelby's tongue stuck inside our paper shredder. Our other dog Sophia, thinking Shelby was being attacked was pulling relentlessly and with all her might on the shredder, not knowing she was making matters worse. Even though in shock of the situation we worked as fast as we could to get Shelby to the vet. We had to pry Sophia off and put her in the bathroom. In that time Shelby had bit her own tongue off. I suppose in animal instinct.

Gino got Shelby in the car as I got dressed and got together our purse and wallet.

This all happened in a matter of 5 minutes. Our closest animal clinic was an agonizing 20 minutes away, at which time Shelby was bleeding profusely. We got there just in time. She started going into convulsions just before being put under for surgery. During the operation she got between 40 to 50 stitches and loss her entire tongue. After the surgery the vet, Dr. Emo, told us she didn't know how Shelby would be able to eat and drink, as she has never seen or heard of an injury like this. At this point we had decided to put her to sleep. Thank God the vet did extensive research and found a study on dogs with the same injury and they adapted to the situation over time and had the same attitude and a great quality of life. We then decided to give Shelby the chance she deserved.

It paid off! She is very happy! Shelby getting her voice back was no problem, 2 weeks later she was barking at the neighbor dog again. She can eat wet food very easily with our help and as of mid June is doing okay with trying to learn to eat dry food again. She is drinking water through a syringe that we give to her. She lets us know when she wants water. She is starting to learn how to scoop up water on her own and on June 17th ate her 1st rawhide that she stole from her sister! She still drools some, but has learned to wipe her own mouth on towels we have in the house and outside for her. We have no doubt she will completely adapt with some time and effort. She's our miracle baby!

We want people to know that this happens and that if it does you can save your baby! If you are in a similar situation please e-mail this web site and they will contact me and I can help you with any questions you may have. I beg you to please tell everyone you know and please UNPLUG your shredder or GET RID OF IT!!!! You NEVER want to go through what we did!!!!!! It was utterly horrible. We couldn't eat or sleep. We have bad nightmares about what happened. PLEASE BE CAREFUL!!!!

Thank you,
Erica Cacioppo, Shelby's owner


From Shelby's vet:

One night while I was working at the St. Louis Animal Emergency Clinic a 4-year-old female spayed Labrador retriever named Shelby came in. Little did I know this would be a dog that I'll never forget. Shelby presented after recently getting her tongue caught in a paper shredder. Despite the owners' and the family pitbull's valiant efforts to rescue her, the traction on Shelby's tongue was too great and it gave way at the level of her epiglottis. Basically, Shelby lost her entire tongue. Despite this, Shelby presented bright, alert, and responsive but was a little head shy and per owners could be unpredictably "snappy" at times making an oral exam difficult without sedation. She had blood dripping from her mouth but the rest of her physical exam
was within normal limits.

In order to provide the owners with a realistic prognosis (in terms of swallowing, prehension, laryngeal reflex, voice) and because the case was so unusual, phone calls were made to the University of Missouri Veterinary Teaching Hospital (UMC-VMTH), a specialty practice in St. Louis called Veterinary Specialty Services (VSS), and my father, Phillip Hornbostel M.D. (a general surgeon) for advice. I learned of a recent study done at UMC-VMTH which showed the prognosis for dogs after traumatic glossectomy (tongue excision) was excellent and explained these results to the owners. The owners were satisfied that an acceptable quality of life was possible for Shelby and opted for surgery.

The immediate and most pressing concern was blood loss. Stabilization was the highest priority since fatalities due to traumatic glossectomy have been reported. In Shelby's case, a preoperative bolus of fluids was given and was adequate for stabilization prior to anesthesia. Pain medication was also given. Preoperative bloodwork to determine if Shelby was anemic was done and her value PCV was 55% which is normal. Upon intubation an oral exam was performed revealing not even a "stub" of tongue, but only a small amount of tissue remaining at the back of the throat. The edges were trimmed and the remainder of the defect was closed with suture.

Shelby recovered well. Her red blood cell count after the surgery but she showed no clinical signs of anemia. She was offered water with a syringe 16 hours after surgery which she took relatively well. Just 24 hours post-op she was offered canned i/d meatballs but it was another 12 hours before she was successful in getting them to the back of her mouth and swallowing them. Shelby was eating and drinking well (syringe drinking) 36 hours later and likely could have gone home at this time. At the owners request Shelby was allowed a full 72 hours of recovery before returning home.

Shelby has been pretty famous since this "freak" accident and has even made the Channel 4 news in Saint Louis! At the time of the news story a few weeks ago she was still getting syringes of water which was likely not necessary but was a result of Shelby training her owners.

University of Missouri recommends kibble for these patients. One post-op patient ate canned food in the form of meatballs in order to get adequate daily water intake. Most of these dogs learn to drink water by scooping it out of the bowl. Another consideration might be a wall mounted watering device with a nipple attachment.

Quality of life was the owners' number one concern and they are thrilled at how much she still enjoys life, including food. All in all Shelby is a happy, albeit very lucky, dog.

NOTE: the most common reason for this traumatic even to occur with paper shredders is from children feeding food into them and dogs licking at the food. We recommend that you NEVER keep your paper shredder on auto feed and keep it out of the use of children.

Dr. Emo works as an Emergency Room veterinarian in St. Louis, Missouri.


So, *PLEASE,* don't take any chances with your precious pets! They should be shedding, not shredding. :)

25 July 2009

To follow up on one of yesterday's *Kitty Bits,* I did a *bit* of browsing, :) The consensus seems to be that carriers are the best means of transporting kitties by car. However, no mention was made of the best location for the carriers.

Pet harnesses were also mentioned ~ though they seem to be more for dogs than kitties. They clip to seatbelts and allow pets enough freedom to sit, lie down, or stand comfortably while keeping them contained in a small area. These harnesses come in a variety of sizes and colors.

You can find them just about anywhere that sells pet items online. The best picture I found was at My Pampered Pets, but since that place is located in New Zealand, you might want to find some place closer to make a purchase. :)

24 July 2009

Cardinals Trade for Holliday
Why am I not surprised that the Cardinals didn't listen to me? Oh well. We'll see how this works out. I also said Cincy would be the sleeper team in the Central, and it looks like Houston will be. :)
Kitty Bits

I am borrowing the title idea from Bernie Miklasz, one of my favorite Post-Dispatch sports writers. Each Saturday, his column contains *Bernie Bits,* brief news items or comments instead of one specific thesis for his whole article. Today I have some *Kitty Bits* for you. Hold your joyful applause please! :)

First up, Trey. He had his booster-shot appointment this morning and received a glowing report from Dr. Britt. He is up to 3.8 pounds now, just about where he should be for a kitten his age. Considering how pitifully emaciated he was when he came to my doorstep, he has made tremendous progress, and I am so proud of him. Dr. Britt said it was easy to tell that Trey has become a mama's boy ~ and his mama doesn't mind one little bit. :)

We live only about 5 minutes from the Douglas Vet Clinic. Unless neighbor Elly happens to be with me, I put the kitty carrier on the front seat beside me so that I can talk to whatever kitty is making the trip. None of them are ever happy about it, so I try to alleviate their anxiety as much as possible. This morning, however, I got to thinking about air bags in my Toyota Corolla, and I couldn't help wondering what a deploying air bag would do to the carrier and, consequently, to my fluff of love. I know there are special car seats for dogs, but kitties are at the mercy of their carriers. Maybe the wise thing to do is to put the carriers in the back seat each time?

Yesterday I went grocery shopping with Elly, and Super Wal-Mart happened to have those Fancy Feast Appetizers that I mentioned in an earlier post ~ $1.29 for a teeny package, so I bought only three for my six babies to share. Usually a bag of Temptations Treats will last me 4-5 days for 5 kitties ~ Elly Fae won't eat treats for some reason. So we're talking the mother of all treats with these appetizer things ~ barely enough for a couple of bites per kitty. And pulling the foil top off required the muscles of Atlas. In fact, I stupidly tried using the leverage of my teeth on that easy-to-open corner, only to get a mouth full of that *Delicate Broth.* YEEEEEEWWWWWW! But the kitties seemed to like it ~ a lot. I hope they savored each bite because they won't be getting any more until their mommy wins the lottery or marries a millionaire. And since I don't buy lottery tickets and I don't date anymore, I'd have to say that my odds of doing either are considerably diminished.

Nonetheless, just today I read an article in the good ol' P-D stating that even in this recession, two out of three pet owners continue to pamper their pets. In these dismal economic times, pet retailers are reporting steady to rising profits. Even Hallmark Cards has reported an increase in sales of their "from the cat,* *from the dog,* and pet sympathy cards. You know that I very much want happy endings for all little animals, but even with all this pampering, animal shelters are bursting their seams as more and more animals are sent to them by people hurting financially. I would like to see maybe a little less *material* pampering and more love given instead to an extra kitty or puppy in the household.

I am always reading to find better ways to care for my fuzzy family. During summer, one of my special concerns is bug spray. You can buy some that is safe for animals, but you often have to order it, and it can be pretty pricey. Yesterday I read that Listerine can make an effective repellent, and hair spray can make an effective bug spray. Sticky hair spray will gum up a bug's wings so that it can't fly, and the spray will also seal breathing orifices so that the bugs can't breathe. It has been used effectively on wasps, ants, and roaches. Since it's water-soluble, it can be cleaned up easily with a damp cloth, and it won't stain fabrics. If you can get past the suffocating-a-bug thing, it would be a good alternative to a chemical bug spray.

I *thought* I had found something else to help my youngest babies when I read that daily doses of castor oil would help kitties' immune systems. Kittens who lose their mamas too early, for whatever reasons, can suffer from stunted immune systems, so I was happy to hear this tip since Deuce and Trey *lost* their mamas before they were fully weaned. However, thanks be to God that I always go looking for more information because in all other articles, I read that castor oil is actually toxic to kitties. It can be part of a concoction for treating external wounds, but it should never be given to the kitty as oral medicine. Two lessons here: (1) Don't give castor oil to your kitty. (2) Double- and triple-check everything you read online, even if it's something you read here. My feelings won't be hurt, and if I'm wrong, I want to know what's right!

I'll finish with a couple of baseball thoughts since I started with one. Dear St. Louis Cardinals: Operating under the old baseball bromide that good pitching stops good hitting, I would rather have Roy Halladay than Matt Holliday. I know the chances of getting either are equal to a snowball's chance in Death Valley, but I thought I would throw my two cents in there. :) And...Dear Cardinals' Fans: Don't worry about the Cubs. When a member of the Cubs' ground crew was mean to a kitty in the spring, I put the Calico Kitty Curse on the team. Combined with all the other curses on the Cubs, they stand...well...a snowball's chance in Death Valley of winning the Central.

Okay, everybody, *NOW* you break into that joyful applause! :)

23 July 2009

Since Trey goes to the vet tomorrow to get his booster, I thought this was an appropriate chuckle for the day. And goodness know we need some extra smiles this week!

21 July 2009

Melinda called me today with sad news. We had lost another former student, the fourth this year. Although our grief is nowhere close to that of the loved ones of these girls, we are devastated. And at the core of our grief is the opinion that burying our babies just isn't right. They should be burying us.

Kathy Lynn Rutledge Ruscher was only 48 years old. I do not know the details of her passing except that she died at home and the family has requested memorials be made to the Heart Association. Kathy's obituary appears at the WJBD Web site, so I won't give those details here. Instead, I will share memories.

She was a superb student and a bright young lady who was also athletic. In fact, in my last year of playing on an organized women's softball team, she and two other of my *barely-former* students were teammates. One of the coaches, a good friend of mine named Mike, had a huge crush on her. He had a thing about women in white shorts, and when he saw Kathy in her white shorts, his tongue hit the ground. :) He asked me to fix him up. I did. And later they married and had three children.

Usually I try to avoid weddings ~ I'm just not into ceremonies of any kind. However, since this was probably the one-and-only fix-up that had ever reaped positive results, I attended this wedding. I remember Kathy's desperately needing a safety pin that I happened to have in my purse sewing kit. She commented that she knew if anyone would be prepared, it would be Miss C. :) Their wedding was basically a small, family ceremony, and afterward the newly married couple walked among the guests and greeted everyone warmly and lovingly ~ so much more satisfying than stereotypical receiving lines.

Mikey and Kathy lost their son, Kevin, a few years ago, and not too long afterward, I ran into them at Super Wal-Mart in Mt. Vernon. I will never forget the absolute agony on her face at that time. I have no children, other than furry ones and students, but my mother always said to multiply the grief of a child losing a parent by a billion, and *maybe* you would understand the grief of a parent losing a child.

Perhaps ironically, the last time I saw Kathy was just a few days ago, again at Super Wal-Mart, but here in Salem. She was with her lovely daughter, Kaitlynn, and I was thrilled to see Kathy so happy again. We chatted for many minutes about how busy she was with her family, which now included son Christopher's two boys, Sam and Jacob. Oh my, but she was *SO* proud of her grandsons, though she was somewhat concerned that one of them seemed to prefer his grandpa to his grandma. :)

And now, suddenly, I hear that she is gone. I won't say *forever,* for she left too many special memories behind for a lot of us.

Instead, I will think of her being reunited joyfully with Kevin as they wait patiently for the rest of us to show up.